130 – Sunday, May 10, 2009 – Mother’s Day
I set aside my normal blogging for today in order that I might honor two mothers who are very special in my life, my own mother, Doraine, and the mother of my son, Cynthia. Those of you who are neither of the ladies are invited to read this message as witnesses to my tribute given because I appreciate your faithfulness. I have tied these ‘two roses’, Doraine, Mom, and Cynthia, wife, in tandem for a multitude of reasons, not the least of which is my personal admiration for both – daily each inspires me by a virtuous and Godly demeanor to be a better person than I have been. Neither gracious lady looks her age (I am pretty certain that it is not because I am such an easy soul with whom to live) or lives her life with anything less than a selflessness and fathomless empathy for others. I am more aware today than I was forty years ago why my folks approved of my selection (more like God’s direction) of a spouse, for Cynthia embodies the family values and intrinsic worth resident in my very own mother. It is said that you seek someone to replace your parent when you marry, and I guess I am unable to disprove that theory. I think what I admire most in both is that, no matter what the cause or occasion, they place the good and the feelings of others above any thought for themselves. The young are drawn to them because youth, like pets, can instinctively sense adoration. Proverbs 31, in a translation known as The Message, in fairly up-to-date vernacular, states my perception of these two this way:
Hymn to a Good Woman From The Message - Proverbs 31
10-31 A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it.Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long.She shops around for the best yarns and cottons, and enjoys knitting and sewing.She's like a trading ship that sails to faraway places and brings back exotic surprises.She's up before dawn, preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day.She looks over a field and buys it, then, with money she's put aside, plants a garden.First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started.She senses the worth of her work, is in no hurry to call it quits for the day.She's skilled in the crafts of home and hearth, diligent in homemaking.She's quick to assist anyone in need, reaches out to help the poor.She doesn't worry about her family when it snows; their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear.She makes her own clothing, and dresses in colorful linens and silks.Her husband is greatly respected when he deliberates with the city fathers.She designs gowns and sells them, brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops.Her clothes are well-made and elegant, and she always faces tomorrow with a smile.When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say, and she always says it kindly.She keeps an eye on everyone in her household, and keeps them all busy and productive.Her children respect and bless her; her husband joins in with words of praise:"Many women have done wonderful things, but you've outclassed them all!"Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God.Give her everything she deserves! Festoon her life with praises!
I have been justifiably accused of rambling in some of my previous writing, in this instance, however, I make no apologies, for there is insufficient paper supply to hold the words of love and respect that I hold in my heart for ladies so beloved in my life. In a man’s lifetime, to have one such as is described in the passage above would be a blessing, but how shall he describe what it is like to have two? I suppose this is the ‘double portion’ as noted elsewhere in Scripture. My life and heart are truly spilling over on this special day as I ponder anew how much my Heavenly Father must care for me by showing such an abundance of love poured out toward me by two of the most awesome mothers to have graced this planet. I love you, ladies – both of you – not in the same way, but with the same love, for the priceless nurturing you have deposited into my spirit and soul and all the incomparable value you symbolize to my family. I will forever hold you on a pedestal in my heart, for you have made prominent places there where you shall ever reign seated on an eternal throne. Enjoy a Blessed Mother’s day – both of you, for you have truly enriched my life!